This is the first of two posts of traveling in Italy, originally written by me and published by Expert Beacon. This post is on things to DO while in Italy; you can probably guess what the next post is about!
There is so much to see, to do, and to
absorb on every trip, and your first trip to Italy will be that way. Whether
you are taking a guided tour, spending a few extra days at the end of a cruise,
or just going on your own, there are some things that you definitely should do,
and there are some you don’t want to do. By necessity, these must be somewhat
general in nature; but since you’re creative—or you might not be going to
Italy—you can use some imagination and tailor them to your own trip.
Do Travel with an
open mind
You’ve probably watched at least one
video, one movie, and a couple television shows about Italy; those might even
be what spurred you to book your trip. Put a lot of that glamor and the
easy-going attitude aside, and realize that not everything is going to be like
what you saw. Yes, Italy is a great country to visit—about 46 million people
visit there each year—and, just like your own country, most of the people
living there have their own lives to live and jobs to do. The best thing you
can do as you pack is to start with an open mind of what it’s going to be like
once you’re there.
Traveling with an open mind and a
flexible attitude works no matter where you go, even if it’s just a town or two
away from home. But when you’re out of your comfort zone, and in another
country where the language is different and so is the money, even the smallest
disruption can create stress. You don’t want that. You do want to enjoy your
vacation, and accepting that changes will occur (the weather, the lodging, the
plans that were so meticulously made) will put you in a frame of mind that
allows you to have the best possible time. Another way to look at it is that
you might have an unexpected surprise when something “happens” that wasn’t on
your scripted itinerary.
Do Learn some Italian
One of the accepted truths in
international travel is that most people in the hospitality business speak at
least some English. That’s nice, but I don’t know many Americans who want a
visitor from a different country to expect them to speak their “foreign
language.” You’ll earn a lot of respect and a willingness to be even more
helpful when you begin the conversation with a Buon giorno or Buona
sera, depending on the time of day. It might feel awkward the first few
times you try it, but that return Italian smile will tell you how much it’s
appreciated that you cared enough to try.
My recommendation is to buy a small
pocket phrase book that you can carry with you during your daily travels.
Practice often, even with a traveling companion, and soon it will will feel
natural. When you see a word you don’t know, look it up. Also, when you want to
say something to a local, or ask a question, don’t be embarrassed—pull out our
phrase book, look it up, and then try to pronounce it. If you get a strange
look, show the book and point to what you were saying. You’ll get an “Ah,”
along with that smile again. At a minimum, use the following words and phrases:
Buon giorno (good morning or good day); Buena sera (good
evening); Grazie (thank you); Prego (please, you’re welcome, I
need to ask you something—it’s used for many things); Arrividerci (good
bye); Si (yes); No (no); Quanto costa? (how much?). TIP:
Take a 3x5 card and write down your list of words and phrases (Italian and
English), and carry that card with you. It’s easier than opening the book, and
soon you won’t even need the card.
Do Prioritize your
list of cities
Unless you’re planning to spend four
weeks in Italy, or you just want a “fly-by” visit to check Italy off your
countries visited list, you should focus your time on one or two main areas. A
good rule of thumb is a minimum of three days per major city (Milan, Venice,
Florence, Rome, Naples), plus a half-day or more travel. There’s fifteen to
eighteen days right there, and that doesn’t count places like Cinque Terra;
Capri and the Amalfi Coast; the island of Sicily; other cities (Ravenna and
Bologna) along the eastern shore. Then there are areas that are worth immersing
yourself into their culture—Tuscany; the Dolomites; Italian Alps; hill towns.
Start with your absolute must-visit
places. Rome has been there for thousands of years; it will still be there two
or three years from now. On our first visit to Italy, we flew into Rome, but
the tour headed right out, and we spent no time in Rome. It wasn’t until we
were on an European tour three years later that we spent some time in Rome. Use
this as a starting formula: Divide the number of days in Italy by 3. Round that
number down, and then subtract one. So if you’re planning a two-week trip, you
lose two days in the USA-Italy-USA travel. You’re left with twelve; 12 divided
by 3 = 4 (no need to round down). Subtract one, and you’re left with three
major cities to visit. This allows for transit between cities, extra time
for the side trips, and you’re not disappointed that you had to cut the
last city short. Also, by not visiting every place on your first trip, you’ll
have an excuse to return to Italy. TIP: If you want just highlights,
divide by two instead of three.
Do Acquaint yourself
with some of the local customs
Some of things that we take for granted
are different in Italy. Some of them are mandated by the government, such as
when hotel heaters must be turned off and when air conditioners can be turned
on. The solutions to these are simple: put on a sweater if you’re cold, or
sweat like everyone else if you’re hot. Coffee is served by the cup, meaning
you don’t get unlimited refills, just as soft drinks are typically sold by the
bottle or can; they’re not dispensed from a fountain machine.
Eating dinner at nine in the evening is
a custom that is difficult to adapt to, but that is a normal starting time for
the evening meal in Italy. That’s why you’ll see many restaurants are closed
until six or seven, and then they open the doors just because they are there
getting things ready. If you go inside, they’ll serve you, but you’ll be eating
all by yourself. And when the Italians do show up for dinner, don’t be
surprised when you see the whole family arrive, children included. Eating
dinner is like an event for them, and it will get noisy and stay that way until
everyone leaves. Meanwhile, you’ve finished your meal, and you’re waiting for
them to bring il conto (the check), but it never arrives. That’s another
nice custom; they won’t push you out of the restaurant to make the table
available for someone else—you have to ask for the bill.
Do Be adventurous and
try eating something new
All of us have our favorites when it
comes to food and drink. So do the Italians, and our favorites don’t always
overlap theirs. The saying, “When in Rome, do as the Romans do” applies
perfectly when it comes to trying to food and beverage items. There are many
regional specialties, such as squid in Venice and Trieste, and meats in
Bologna. Using your phrase book, you can either ask for something in
particular, or interpret what is listed as today’s specialty. If you like wine,
be prepared to be surprised how good (and inexpensive) the local wines are.
You’ll win points, and taste some good wines, when you order vino della casa
(house wine).
If you have particular dietary
restrictions (or strong preferences), you will do better to go to the larger
restaurants in the major cities. Once again, use your phrase book to point to
something you want, or to show them something you don’t want. Be prepared,
however, for a response that indicates they don’t have it, or it can’t be done.
For example, if you have an intolerance for wheat, you’d better avoid the pasta
unless they convince you that they have rice pasta available.
