With the French Open currently taking place at Roland Garros in Paris, France, it seems like the perfect time to re-visit a piece I wrote a few months back for Expert Beacon. The article was titled, “Dos and Don’ts When Planning Your Trip to France.” I was asked to write this article because as America’s International Travel Expert®, I’ve been to France several times and much of the advice was specifically targeted for the first-time visitor (per the publisher’s request).
Okay, let’s get started. You’re excited because you’re finally going to France for the first time; congratulations! But then your mind starts asking questions like, “What should I wear?”; “What should I do?”; “Is it safe to be out at night?”; “Do they speak English?” Relax; once you do some proper planning and expectations setting, your trip to France will be magnifique, and you’ll start planning your return trip even before your feet leave French soil!
Do #1 — Do spend the majority of your time in Paris
Unless you’re going to be in France for a full month (quite rare for a first-time visit), you’ll want to spend most of your time in the City of Lights. This marvelous crossroads-of-the-world city is a better introduction to French life than most videos you’ll ever see. Of course, you’ll want to go to the major sights: Louvre; Eiffel Tower; Notre Dame Cathedral. The best daytime view is from the tower at Sacre-Couer, at the highest point in the city. Looking south gives you a different perspective from what you see from the Eiffel Tower. At night, the boat ride along the Seine River is a must-see spectacle; you can even have dinner on some of the boats.
Art galleries and museums are ever-abundant in Paris. You could spend a month in the Louvre, but don’t do that; hire a guide, or take a half-day tour, and then use your pass to get back in the next afternoon when you have an free hour. The Orsay Museum, a converted railroad station is delightful, as is Monet’s Orangerie. There are smaller ones dedicated to Delacroix, Rodin, Picasso (my favorite) and others; plus there’s a Perfume Museum, a Jewish Art & History Museum—you get the point; there’s lots to see in Paris.
Do #2 — Do buy a Metro pass for your entire stay in Paris
Since you’re going to be in Paris for most of your stay, the Metro (subway) is the easiest way to get around town. You’re never more than a 10-minute walk from a stop, and the trains run about 18 hours a day. You’ll find that you can even take the Metro to a train station (Gare) for your day-trip to Versailles, Normandy, or wherever you want to go. Your best value is to buy a carnet (book) of tickets, and only buy them from the Metro stations; never buy tickets from someone offering you a “good deal.”
As with most major tourist spots, you’ll want to protect your personal belongings on the Metro (and everywhere, of course) and in the stations. Pickpockets are around, but be smart and you’ll be safe. If you’re flying into Charles De Gaulle airport, you can take the train from the airport to Gare du Nord (literally, Train Station of the North), and then board the Metro to your lodging in Paris. I’ve done it, and it’s a lot faster and cheaper than taking a taxi. Just ask your hotelier which Metro line and station you want to transfer to inside Gare du Nord.
Since you’re going to be in Paris for most of your stay, the Metro (subway) is the easiest way to get around town. You’re never more than a 10-minute walk from a stop, and the trains run about 18 hours a day. You’ll find that you can even take the Metro to a train station (Gare) for your day-trip to Versailles, Normandy, or wherever you want to go. Your best value is to buy a carnet (book) of tickets, and only buy them from the Metro stations; never buy tickets from someone offering you a “good deal.”
As with most major tourist spots, you’ll want to protect your personal belongings on the Metro (and everywhere, of course) and in the stations. Pickpockets are around, but be smart and you’ll be safe. If you’re flying into Charles De Gaulle airport, you can take the train from the airport to Gare du Nord (literally, Train Station of the North), and then board the Metro to your lodging in Paris. I’ve done it, and it’s a lot faster and cheaper than taking a taxi. Just ask your hotelier which Metro line and station you want to transfer to inside Gare du Nord.
Do #3 — Do learn some of the basic words in French
One of the best ways to create instant rapport with someone in another country is to speak some words in their language, rather than expecting that they will speak yours. They probably can speak English, but France isn’t the USA; it’s not the U.K., and it’s certainly nowhere near Australia or New Zealand. Learning a few basic words and phrases is fun to do, and it also lets the French know that you care about them and their culture.
Start with a few everyday words and phrases, and then expand as your comfort level increases; pronunciation is a bit tricky, so practice with a friend or your traveling partner: Merci (Thank you); S’il vous plait (Please); Bonjour (Good morning); Oui (Yes); Non (No); Ou est (Where is). Purchase and carry with you a small phrase book, and don’t be afraid to refer to it, and even point out words in it if you’re having a communication issue.
One of the best ways to create instant rapport with someone in another country is to speak some words in their language, rather than expecting that they will speak yours. They probably can speak English, but France isn’t the USA; it’s not the U.K., and it’s certainly nowhere near Australia or New Zealand. Learning a few basic words and phrases is fun to do, and it also lets the French know that you care about them and their culture.
Start with a few everyday words and phrases, and then expand as your comfort level increases; pronunciation is a bit tricky, so practice with a friend or your traveling partner: Merci (Thank you); S’il vous plait (Please); Bonjour (Good morning); Oui (Yes); Non (No); Ou est (Where is). Purchase and carry with you a small phrase book, and don’t be afraid to refer to it, and even point out words in it if you’re having a communication issue.
Do #4 — Do mingle with the locals
You’ll find that the French like to get outdoors, go for walks, and sit in the parks and in the cafes. Even the smallest villages have gathering places where the locals will sip a cup of coffee or a glass of wine, and you’ll be welcomed to join in. Point to your phrase book, and they’ll know you’re an American, but speak as much French as you can. While you’re “with the locals,” try some of the local cuisine, whether it’s crepes at a sidewalk café, escargot in a sit-down restaurant, or the local beer or wine that’s being served with the local cheese. It’s all good, even though it’s not what you’re used to having. But give it a try, and enjoy life!
You’ll find that the French like to get outdoors, go for walks, and sit in the parks and in the cafes. Even the smallest villages have gathering places where the locals will sip a cup of coffee or a glass of wine, and you’ll be welcomed to join in. Point to your phrase book, and they’ll know you’re an American, but speak as much French as you can. While you’re “with the locals,” try some of the local cuisine, whether it’s crepes at a sidewalk café, escargot in a sit-down restaurant, or the local beer or wine that’s being served with the local cheese. It’s all good, even though it’s not what you’re used to having. But give it a try, and enjoy life!
Do #5 — Do speak only French for one entire day
One of the most exciting days on my first trip to France was to force myself to speak only French for one full day. I was traveling alone, so it did make it easier since I didn’t have to talk with myself. But I greeted everyone in French; I ordered my meals and asked for the bill in French; it was rather painless. I had my phrase book with me, and so I would look up something if I didn’t know it in French, and I was never made to feel embarrassed by what I was doing. I could tell, instead, that they appreciated my efforts, and it did feel good.
One of the most exciting days on my first trip to France was to force myself to speak only French for one full day. I was traveling alone, so it did make it easier since I didn’t have to talk with myself. But I greeted everyone in French; I ordered my meals and asked for the bill in French; it was rather painless. I had my phrase book with me, and so I would look up something if I didn’t know it in French, and I was never made to feel embarrassed by what I was doing. I could tell, instead, that they appreciated my efforts, and it did feel good.
Okay, those are what you should plan to do on your trip, whether
it’s the first or the fifteenth time. Now let’s look at some things that you
shouldn’t do (unless there is areally strong reason).
Don’t #1 — Don’t stay where only Americans stay
One of the nice things about the big hotel chains is that they have hotels all over the world. You can find a Marriott-branded hotel almost anywhere. There are also Hyatts, Best Westerns, etc. I have nothing against them; I’ve stayed in them in numerous countries. On your first trip to France, however, you don’t want to spend all your time being surrounded by Americans, do you? If so, then why not just rent a hotel room in your own downtown?
One of the nice things about the big hotel chains is that they have hotels all over the world. You can find a Marriott-branded hotel almost anywhere. There are also Hyatts, Best Westerns, etc. I have nothing against them; I’ve stayed in them in numerous countries. On your first trip to France, however, you don’t want to spend all your time being surrounded by Americans, do you? If so, then why not just rent a hotel room in your own downtown?
Be a little adventurous and stay someplace “different.”
Mercure (www.mercure.com) is a hotel chain in Europe that has a quality
reputation; they have a lot of locations, and you could even build up rewards
points through their loyalty program. Ibis Hotels is another European chain
(www.ibishotels.com) that you could try. You could also do a search on hotels
or Bed & Breakfast lodging in the areas where you’ll be. These hoteliers
might not be as fluent in English as at the Marriott, but I’m confident that
your stay will be more pleasurable, and your experiences will be more genuine.
Don’t #2 — Don’t be afraid to mispronounce words
The best way to learn a language is to speak it. The locals will know you’re not French; that’s okay. By attempting to speak some of their language, you’ll see them open up more to you, and they’ll extend the arm of hospitality as if you’re a longtime friend. Once you show that that you’re trying, you will soon find them helping you with the pronunciation, such as you don’t pronounce the ending ‘n’ in ‘non’ or the ‘s’ in ‘pas.’ But even if you do put the emphasis on the wrong syllable, or you can’t do that nasally sound, their smiles will show you that they appreciate your trying.
Besides your hotel or B&B, the safest place to try your new speaking skills is in the restaurant. If the waiter can’t understand what you are saying, you can always point to the picture and smile. Or say, S’il vous plait while you open your phrase book and find exactly what you’re trying to say and how to pronounce it. You’re only going to get better by practicing.
The best way to learn a language is to speak it. The locals will know you’re not French; that’s okay. By attempting to speak some of their language, you’ll see them open up more to you, and they’ll extend the arm of hospitality as if you’re a longtime friend. Once you show that that you’re trying, you will soon find them helping you with the pronunciation, such as you don’t pronounce the ending ‘n’ in ‘non’ or the ‘s’ in ‘pas.’ But even if you do put the emphasis on the wrong syllable, or you can’t do that nasally sound, their smiles will show you that they appreciate your trying.
Besides your hotel or B&B, the safest place to try your new speaking skills is in the restaurant. If the waiter can’t understand what you are saying, you can always point to the picture and smile. Or say, S’il vous plait while you open your phrase book and find exactly what you’re trying to say and how to pronounce it. You’re only going to get better by practicing.
Don’t #3 — Don’t be a cheap-skate
You’ve already spent a fair amount of money on the airfare (or cruise) just to get to France; don’t tighten up the purse strings now. Look at your spending as an investment in your travel experiences and enjoyment. This doesn’t mean you have to go crazy and buy everything you see, but if the room with a spectacular room costs a little bit more per night, then go for it. The elevator ride up the Eiffel Tower isn’t included in the Paris Museum Pass, so go ahead and spend the 12 Euros and go all the way to the top.
One place you can save a few dollars, however, is when you exchange Dollars for Euros. Your hotel might change them for you, but ask what their rate is; a B&B is less likely to be able to do the exchange for you. Walk to a bank, or an American Express exchange location; I’ve found that Amex gives a better rate plus no fee if you have your Amex card with you.
You’ve already spent a fair amount of money on the airfare (or cruise) just to get to France; don’t tighten up the purse strings now. Look at your spending as an investment in your travel experiences and enjoyment. This doesn’t mean you have to go crazy and buy everything you see, but if the room with a spectacular room costs a little bit more per night, then go for it. The elevator ride up the Eiffel Tower isn’t included in the Paris Museum Pass, so go ahead and spend the 12 Euros and go all the way to the top.
One place you can save a few dollars, however, is when you exchange Dollars for Euros. Your hotel might change them for you, but ask what their rate is; a B&B is less likely to be able to do the exchange for you. Walk to a bank, or an American Express exchange location; I’ve found that Amex gives a better rate plus no fee if you have your Amex card with you.
Don’t #4 — Don’t pay attention to the nay-sayers
There are always going to be some people who will try to discourage your trip to France. “They’re rude” some people will say. Others will tell you how their trip-of-a-lifetime was ruined by the cold and “I don’t speak any English” waiter they encountered during their special anniversary dinner. Don’t listen to those people; they’re secretly jealous that you’re going instead of them. If France were such an awful place to visit, why would over 75 million people a year go there?” It has topped the most-visited country list for the past 3 years, and I don’t see what could change that.
You ARE going to have a wonderful experience on your first trip to France because of your planning, preparation, and proper attitude. When you return, those same nay-sayers will be expecting to hear how they were right, but won’t they be surprised when you tell them about the exciting places you visited, the warm and friendly locals who made you feel extremely welcome, and all the foods you tried. And when you tell them how many words in French you were able to use, they’ll mutter something and walk away, looking for someone else whose trip they can try to spoil.
There are always going to be some people who will try to discourage your trip to France. “They’re rude” some people will say. Others will tell you how their trip-of-a-lifetime was ruined by the cold and “I don’t speak any English” waiter they encountered during their special anniversary dinner. Don’t listen to those people; they’re secretly jealous that you’re going instead of them. If France were such an awful place to visit, why would over 75 million people a year go there?” It has topped the most-visited country list for the past 3 years, and I don’t see what could change that.
You ARE going to have a wonderful experience on your first trip to France because of your planning, preparation, and proper attitude. When you return, those same nay-sayers will be expecting to hear how they were right, but won’t they be surprised when you tell them about the exciting places you visited, the warm and friendly locals who made you feel extremely welcome, and all the foods you tried. And when you tell them how many words in French you were able to use, they’ll mutter something and walk away, looking for someone else whose trip they can try to spoil.
Don’t #5 — Don’t forget to have fun and enjoy the experience
It’s easy to get caught up in hustle and bustle of your trip. There is a lot to do before you go, and you might ask yourself, “Is this really worth it?” YES, it is worth it. You are going to have the most marvelous time because you took your phrase book, and you weren’t afraid to speak French. One of the most surprising things is that you’ll find yourself automatically saying Merci instead of “Thank you.” You discovered how easy it was to take the Metro across town or even to the train station for a day trip in the country. It will be easy to spot another visitor, with his or her guide book opened and looking confused. Bonjour, you’ll say, followed by “May I help you find something?” That “thank you” smile will tell you how much your assistance was appreciated.
If the majority of your time is going to be in the smaller cities, you will be able to participate in many of the local activities, especially the open air markets on the weekend. Sample the breads, the cheeses, and the wines. Try out your French; it does come a little easier after the first glass of wine. As you savor the foods and drinks, you’ll also be absorbing the total experience that brings so many people back to France year after year. Maybe you’ll jot in your travel notebook some of the things you want to do on your NEXT visit to France. Yes, it was a great trip, and you’re smiling as you replay so many of those great memories you have; “When can I go back?” you’ll ask yourself.
It’s easy to get caught up in hustle and bustle of your trip. There is a lot to do before you go, and you might ask yourself, “Is this really worth it?” YES, it is worth it. You are going to have the most marvelous time because you took your phrase book, and you weren’t afraid to speak French. One of the most surprising things is that you’ll find yourself automatically saying Merci instead of “Thank you.” You discovered how easy it was to take the Metro across town or even to the train station for a day trip in the country. It will be easy to spot another visitor, with his or her guide book opened and looking confused. Bonjour, you’ll say, followed by “May I help you find something?” That “thank you” smile will tell you how much your assistance was appreciated.
If the majority of your time is going to be in the smaller cities, you will be able to participate in many of the local activities, especially the open air markets on the weekend. Sample the breads, the cheeses, and the wines. Try out your French; it does come a little easier after the first glass of wine. As you savor the foods and drinks, you’ll also be absorbing the total experience that brings so many people back to France year after year. Maybe you’ll jot in your travel notebook some of the things you want to do on your NEXT visit to France. Yes, it was a great trip, and you’re smiling as you replay so many of those great memories you have; “When can I go back?” you’ll ask yourself.
In summary, traveling to France for the first time can be
intimidating, but only if you listen to the negatives (and they’re mostly
unfounded). Your proper planning, taking that small phrase book, and being
mentally set for a great time, all these things will combine into a
trip-of-a-lifetime experience for you. Being able to fit in with the locals,
and speak some of their language, has boosted your confidence in being a
seasoned traveler. Congratulations, and Bon Voyage!
More travel tips and information is available from Stuart
Gustafson, America’s International Travel Expert®, at www.stuartgustafson.com.
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